Is reading and liking yaoi/ yaoi seggs fetishizing?

I wouldn't call it fetishizing because its not that they're necessarily gay that turns u on maybe its because you like men so why not read 2 of them do it? I like the same sex too but i prefer watching straight seggs. Its not like im hurting anyone by watching it. Just dont think that someone is gay or pair them with someone if they're not really in a relationship and make them uncomfortable. And its okay if you get butterflies when real life couples kiss or be romantic cause its normal so i dunno what people are talking abt it being a fetish.



Its my opinion tho its okay if you have different views just dont attack someone just because they like reading bl or yaoi. If they cross the line just educate them