i need help
this is a bit personal but i really have nobody to talk to about this. i thought i'd feel better if it was anonymous online so here goes
my partner wants kids in the future. i dont.
we don't intend on breaking up over this cus we've been together since high school. we're in our early twenties and i am really sure that i dont want to start a family.
even the thought of marriage scares me. i think i will eventually want to marry my partner but i know i'll never be open to having kids.
(i'd prefer it if adults answered this instead of the general ten year old populace on mangago)
I feel like this would be something to ask on reddit. r/relationships or r/relationship_advice could be good for you.
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21 02,2021
in hindsight, this wasnt the best place to ask about this lmao
(-OP)
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21 02,2021
My first thought reading this was to break up sooner than later but then u stated it probably won't happen. So my best guess in this situation would be to find a comprise and get pets or try fostering kids at least once to get the feel. Maybe one of you will falter and see it's not that bad or if it's too much to handle; then you'll talk it out mor......
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21 02,2021