Its so funny whenever mlm people post things about being a fujoshi and how it makes them feel and stuff. People come in their comments HELLA fucking pissed and it is hilarious. Like if yall say yall aren't doing the shit that fujoshis do/the mlm people are saying why are yall so offended?
It makes me think yall are actually guilty of it. Cuz Yall know the saying "people only get mad and defensive about certain topics when they know they are guilty." And "the guilty always cry out first."
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I think that identifying as a "fujo/fudan" is weird. If you like reading lesbian/gay shit then just say that, but making it a fucking adjective is weird to me. I know you guys are upset that the chill fujos/fudans are being lumped in with the problematic ones, but you shouldn't really be "identifying" as one anyway. Just say you like to read xyz without making it your personality
what are fujoshi's
omfg,,, males watch lesbian shit read lesbian shit AND THEN COME AT THE FUJOSHIS OR FUJINS FOR LIKING THE EXACT SAME THING JUST THE OPPOSITE GENDER LIKE WHAT,,, i myself am a gay man and i support the fujoshi/fujin community,,, atleast the fujoshis and fujins support us. n e ways all love to my fujoshis and fujins that don't only read bl's with lots of seggs <3
Dude you sound dumb, if you get blamed of stealing from the mall. Wouldn't you say it wasn't you first, to defend yourself. i swear y'all use the dumbest shit to make the ones doing nothing wrong feel guilty. YOU AREN'T DOING SHIT by posting this. Just because you don't like yaoi or bl doesn't mean you can criticize people who do like it (unless you have WITNESSED the fetishing. Fujos must live in your head rent free.
hi. it gets really agitating for me when i see a lot of mlm’s generalizing *all* women/enbies that read bl or all fujos/fudans by labeling us as “fetishizers”. does it make me “guilty”? no, it doesn’t at all. it makes me sigh out of exhaustion actually
Yeah but that's not the point,,, It's them categorizing the ENTIRE Fujo community as bad / problematic people,, Like they specifically say "The Fujo Community" or "Female m/m readers",,, They never go "Some not all",,, And that's where people get mad,,, It's because they're getting grouped with a behavior that's got nothing to do with them,,,
thank you, you explained better then i could
I don't know what mlm is but if someone talked wrong about you, wouldn't you also get mad? Like if someone says something wrong about islam and goes on at it like they know it better than my own religion, i would also get mad you know.
Yes! ,,, This right here is a perfect example,,, And m/m or mlm I say m/m is yaoi, BL, Boy's Love, or whatever category of m/m you read,,, But I believe you're correct here,,, That's people saying all Muslims are terrorists when that's not true!!! ,,, You'd have every right to say your people aren't like this,,, So same goes for the Fujo community,,, Yes there are some bad apples but when you say "All are bad" that doesn't mean you yourself have done such action / crime and are guilty thus trying to defend yourself,,, But that means you're just trying to protect what you believe in,,,
Uh please don't compare the stereotype that "all Muslims are terrorists" to a group of viewers being called fetishizers. That's really insensitive?? Also, idk what this idea of comparing negative stereotypes about religion to porn viewers is about, but that ain't it.
It isn't about religion or porn viewing. Its about categorizing an ENTIRE community because of some ppl. ARMYs are toxic (only 15%) but do ppl have the right to say that the WHOLE bts fandom is toxic?
Muslims ARE terrorists, but do ppl have the right to say ALL muslim are toxic. Personally, I don't like the uke/seme terms. I used to use them but I realized that I shouldn't. ALL of the communities/group/religion etc. have a toxic side. Doesn't mean you'll shame/hate on ALL of them.
*terrorists not toxic in the muslim part
Thank you for replying to them for me,,, It has nothing to do with religion or a category of work,,, As you've stated,,, No the problem is when you go "ALL" people who fall under a certain label are "BAD" because of what they read / or believe in,,, Yes there are bad apples in EVERY label but not all are bad,,, And me comparing the stereotype "All Muslims are terrorists" is valid when gay men go "Fujoshis are sick and twisted WOMEN who fetishize US",,, Especially when said stereotypes are UNTRUE,,, Am I saying these two stereotypes are the EXACT same thing,,, No because Muslims will be physically attacked or ridiculed PUBLICLY whereas Fujo attacks happen ONLINE,,, They possibly happen IRL but I've yet to hear of said incident,,, One stereotype is more severe than the other YES,,, You'd have to be insane to say it isn't,,, But am I saying there are BAD people who fall under said labels,,, YES,,, Cuz' as Ani-Chan has stated "All Muslims are terrorists" is a NEGATIVE stereotype,,, But isn't "All Fujoshis are sick and twisted women who're unfit for marriage and fetishize gay men" also a negative stereotype,,, I'd fail to believe somebody who says it's a great thing to be called such a terrible thing,,, Although the meaning has changed in Japanese society to be somebody who enjoys m/m works,,, And ISN'T a negative thing and is used neutrally in their society,,, Westerners still use it as an insult,,, So I'm going based off of on the Western belief that if you read m/m works,,, You're ROTTEN,,, Went off on a little rant there but,,, To sum it all up,,, There will ALWAYS be those few apples in a race/religion/community,,, But to say ALL are bad is where people get upset and feel like they need to protect themselves,,, EVEN WHEN THEY AREN'T THOSE SAID BAD APPLES,,,
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(Trauma and Suicide)
And before anybody gets mad,,, I can compare these two things being somebody who holds X amount of trauma,,,
And to add on to this with me justifying the use of comparing those two very NEGATIVE stereotypes,,, Let me give you an example,,, A trauma survivor and somebody going through a breakup,,, Their experiences are WAY different,,, YES,,, But their emotions and thoughts of suicide or other NEGATIVE thoughts,,, ARE THE SAME,,, So no you cannot compare their experience,,, But you can compare their emotions and thoughts,,, What you CANNOT do is invalidate the feelings and experience of somebody going through a breakup because to YOU - you believe they've gotten it easy and should try walking in your shoes,,, That's like an older person going "You've got it easy because back in my day X Y and Z",,, Which is TRUE people in this day and age of society we technically do have it easier than people from an older time,,, But INVALIDATING someone / something is WRONG,,, So to me in my opinion the "Muslims are all terrorists" and "Fujoshis are all sick and twisted straight women fetishizing gay men" stereotypes can be placed in that example,,, Thus being compared,,, YES,,, Muslims have it WAY harder just because of their beliefs,,, But at the same time Fujos,,, And to be specific because that's what every gay man calls out,,, STRAIGHT CIS-GENDERED FEMALES,,, Get shit for reading a category of work,,, People who fall under these labels go through different EXPERIENCES,,, YES,,, But is the NEGATIVITY behind said stereotypes and grouping still there,,, YES,,, Is it right for an ENTIRE race/community/religion to be grouped together to be BAD,,, NO,,, But please if you have a different take on this matter or don't agree with my posts here please let me know why,,, And be civil and be accurate,,, Don't just go you're wrong or I don't agree and don't say WHY,,,
I made a mistake in my writing at the,,,
*Cuz' as Ani-Chan has stated "All Muslims are terrorists" is a NEGATIVE stereotype,,,
Part,,, The person who stated that said stereotype is negative wasn't Ani-Chan but Kal,,, I honestly saw the @(Name) and thought that's who said that specifically,,, But it wasn't and I'm sorry for any confusion
Exactly!! Its kinda like the "if one makes mistake, everyone dies" you know. That's why i don't like it when people talks generally about something. Like some says dog lovers hates cats but there are people aren't like that. For example my friend. She's a dog person but we feed the street cats sometimes and she loves them alot!
Well did you heard of something called "giving an example"? I can give diffrent examples about how its like but that was the first thing came into my mind. All im trying to say is "don't talk generally if there can be people that has a diffrent opinion".