she did me wrong
she was my friend for like 8 years but she was always problematic as hell. she was nice and honestly a good person to be around as long as no boys were around. i knew she had a boy problem bc she literally stole 3 guys from this other girl (and broke off their friendship when the other girl went out with her "ex" that she dated for a week and never talked to again) but i was trying to stay neutral bc yk shes my childhood friend. but then she kissed the guy i had a thing with. knowing fully fucking well i had a thing with him. and asked him right after if he still liked me. and then they both pretended like nothing happened and never told me. she still doesnt know that i know and its been like a year. and im still friends with her because im dumb and i have like half of my classes with her so it'll just be awkward. yes i know its partly my fault for not confronting her but its so hard shes the type you dont wanna get on the bad side of since she'll never forget anything you did wrong. i was gonna confront her at the end of high school but im feeling more and more pissed at her and its just kind of weird bc its already been a year. anyways she has a boyfriend now and talks about him to me :)
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And about your friend, you need to confront her, but also need to be assertive and tell her to have more respect to her friends and herself. If she keeps acting like her actions don't matter, then she will be alone eventually. High school don't mean anything after it ends, her behavior will be ostracized if she don't reflect on herself.
Interesting. I went through a similar situation ... I had a crush on a boy in high school and a "friend" of mine told me that we could be a cute couple. I was very shy and insecure, so I denied that we could be a couple. To my surprise, she started flirting with him a few days later. It made me upset, sad and unhappy for many months but I decided that I would stop going after this guy. The conclusion is that she broke up with him to be with another guy, and told him that I liked him ... He rejected me, but then he decided to come after me, who knows why. Today it has been 11 years since this happened, and with my life experience I can tell you that if the guy I liked wanted to go after someone like her and didn't want me, then he doesn't deserve you.