Fetishization
If you think this topic has been repeated too many times then just don't fucking read this.
Its natural for a cishet woman to find an Male x Male relationship attractive. But lots of females become obsessive to the point that its wrong. You'll notice that you most probably subliminally glorify mlm, assign heteronormative gender roles to men in gay relationships, associate them with a "ukes" or "semes", believe in offensive stereotypes, etc. Leaning in favor of mlm is basically objectifying.
Its dehumanizing. Its not supportive. Its unhealthy misrepresentation.
There is a whole genre and fandom created by primarily women based off of homosexual erotica. I find this to be gross in itself. Recently there was a post wherein the OP stated that she wanted to know what an "uke's" moan sounds like so she watched gay porn. And she just asked other fujoshis if they do the same. THIS. This is the reason gay men (and lots of others) are against fujoshis. Its so fucking uncomfortable.
LGBTQ+ people are still fighting for basic human rights. Fetishising a marginalised community- do you really not see what is wrong with that? If you don't then it just shows your privilege. You are in no position to argue with us on our issues because you ARE the issue.
Totally! I agree, becaue I find it comical that people are getting mad at a generalization of bl readers rather than actually helping to solve issues in the first place. They say they are not apart of such a group, but they turn around and are complicit in such issues because they believe it doesn’t involve them therefore, they are not apart of t......
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19 02,2021