How did you guys come out?
im bi
with my friends it was easy i just let them know and they took some time to accept it and stop seeing me and being in love with every girl ive ever laid my eyes on but,,,,,,, i stopped being friends with a lot of them and with my current group i cant remember a time when i wasnt out.
as for my family, i just told my sister i was dating a girl she thought was my friend and she asked for all the details as sisters do. shes probably always known i was gay. with my mum it was more like, my girlfriend told her parents and they freaked out and she was gonna stay with me but her parents demanded that either i tell my mum or they do. so i told her the reason my "friend" got kicked out was because i was dating her. she said theres worse things i could be and hugged me and took my sister, me and my girlfriend on a roadtrip so id stop being so upset.
i wish i wasnt forced to come out to my mum because i never thought id have to come out to her id just bring a girl home one day and thatd be that. but its whatever, i still cry a little when i think about how much pain i went through that day. i wish id let them tell her because shed totally have sided with me.
whats everyone else experiences?
First time (coming out as 'gay', 16, now I know I'm gay for all genders): Friend-wise, said that guys kissing is hotter than straight people kissing. Family-wise, emailed my parents and let them tell extended family.
Second time (coming out as asexual, ~18): friend-wise just mentioned it many times. Family-wise, my brother told my dad and I said '......
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18 06,2018