“It’s just a phase”
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Share your coming out experience
Here’s mine.
So I came out to my mom today, JUST my mom. I came out at a pretty early age for the average person but even if I was young I had been Lesbian for 4 years and I was really ready to tell her. She supported me, saying it’s ok and that she understood. At least that’s what I thought. A few days later (maybe two) she comes into my room to “hang out”. She came in there and started talking and then she somehow started to try and convince me I was straight, “you don’t know honey, you might change your mind because your body is going through hormones.” She talks and talks, trying to tell me that I’m not ready to make these types of choices. Until she find that oh so called famous response and strait up says, “Your not lesbian, it’s just A PHASE”
Now, imagine you believe in something for four years, and someone tells you it’s just a god damn fucking phase. She didn’t even think about how I felt she just kept on going why I should and not lesbian. Like bitch, when did you decide you were straight??
I know she goes through some shock too, but telling me its a phase hurt more than I thought because it basically means they don’t except you for who you are. I have been waiting for four years, all those four years was “just a phase”. None of y’all probably read this whole thing but if you did (thanks) know that people don’t get to decide if your going through a phase or not. If they cant accept you than fuck them.
Hi, you have no idea how much your story shocked me cause it is very similar to my “coming out” story, it’s long but here I go.
To start from the beginning, my grandfather passed away a couple years ago maybe mid 2018, this hit me hard and I was depressed for a while and hurt myself as well, but I got better with the support of my friends. ......
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17 02,2021