i need ur help
i'm not rlly comfortable talking abt this on my main so here i am with this dummy account lmao. sooo i've been thinking abt this lately, and i decided i want to come out of the closet. i'm 12 and i'm lesbian (aight, i know i'm in a website where porn is literally everywhere and things a normal 12 year old kid shouldn't be seeing, pls don't attack me. idk y i'm here either).
and NO, i'm NOT confused. i'm into girls even when i was younger, but i didn't know i was gay 'til last year. no one talked abt lgbtq be4 so obviously, i wouldn't know. i liked hanging out with guys and being friends with them, only bc i felt like i could relate to them, especially when they're talking abt their girl crushes.
the point is, i wanted to tell my parents, but i'm scared. my mom saw me watching bl thai series one time, she was disgusted and told me to stop. same reaction with my father. i figured out they were homophobics, making me more scared (don't get me wrong, my parents r the best, sure they can be toxic and strict but they're ok).
i don't care abt what others think, i'm scared that my parents won't accept me. i felt like they would tell me i'm too young and will probably try to straighten me up. i just wanted to tell them early, i badly need ur advice :(
tbh this may not be the answer you want to hear, but in my opinion, I would definitely hold off on coming out. I know that you feel very solid in your identity right now and that's great- I'm really happy that you've found a part of yourself like that- However, I honestly wouldn't risk altering your family dynamics in a time of your life where you ......
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14 02,2021