i need ur help
i'm not rlly comfortable talking abt this on my main so here i am with this dummy account lmao. sooo i've been thinking abt this lately, and i decided i want to come out of the closet. i'm 12 and i'm lesbian (aight, i know i'm in a website where porn is literally everywhere and things a normal 12 year old kid shouldn't be seeing, pls don't attack me. idk y i'm here either).
and NO, i'm NOT confused. i'm into girls even when i was younger, but i didn't know i was gay 'til last year. no one talked abt lgbtq be4 so obviously, i wouldn't know. i liked hanging out with guys and being friends with them, only bc i felt like i could relate to them, especially when they're talking abt their girl crushes.
the point is, i wanted to tell my parents, but i'm scared. my mom saw me watching bl thai series one time, she was disgusted and told me to stop. same reaction with my father. i figured out they were homophobics, making me more scared (don't get me wrong, my parents r the best, sure they can be toxic and strict but they're ok).
i don't care abt what others think, i'm scared that my parents won't accept me. i felt like they would tell me i'm too young and will probably try to straighten me up. i just wanted to tell them early, i badly need ur advice :(
First of all, please don't say your age. It's not safe. You never know what weirdos you could meet on this site (or any other ones), so better keep your personal info only for yourself, especially because you're a minor and again, it's not safe at all.
And so, don't rush the things if you think you're not ready, comfortable and safe to tell them. ......
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14 02,2021
you don't have to come out of the closet if you don't want to. you should never feel pressured to come out. if you feel comfortable coming out, then it's alright. but if you don't, you don't need to do so. take your time :)
you're still young and in a homophobic environment. unless you have a reliable adult to turn to, it could be dangerous to com......
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14 02,2021
my mother went through my laptop and found out i was lesbian and i think u should atleast wait till ur comfortable to come out
happy valentines day btw
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14 02,2021
tbh this may not be the answer you want to hear, but in my opinion, I would definitely hold off on coming out. I know that you feel very solid in your identity right now and that's great- I'm really happy that you've found a part of yourself like that- However, I honestly wouldn't risk altering your family dynamics in a time of your life where you ......
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14 02,2021
Maybe you shouldnt come out to them, you never know what type of shit they'll make you go through if they find out. Honestly sad their homophobic, you parents are trash. Imma give you some wlw content to cheer you up
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14 02,2021
TYSM, Y'ALL DON'T KNOW HOW MUCH THIS HELPED ME
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14 02,2021
the most important thing to have in mind when u come out to someone is your safety. if u have doubts that they r homophobic, maybe instead of telling them directly u could go around the subject a little bit or just keep it to yourself until u are sure that you have a plan b if things go wrong. im so so sorry that u have to go through this, no one d......
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14 02,2021
You’re not alone!! A common strategy is to bring up queerness or sexual orientation in passing. You might say something like, “I hear Drew Barrymore is bisexual,” or “Did you hear about the new antidiscrimination law?” or “Ellen and Portia are so cute!” (Yeah, I’ve used all of those)
And then use their reaction to judge whether they......
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14 02,2021
