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hi, so im kinda new to mangago and i just joined a few months ago. im a straight girl and ive become a really big fan of yaoi so i guess im what you would call a fujoshi?(not sure).
anyway, so ive seen a lot of things on here about bad fujoshis who's thoughts on yaoi are usually bad or fetishizing. i don't really know what im like or if im reading yaoi for the right reasons or if im actually being a "good fujoshi". im really uneducated on the LGBTQ+ community and i just really want to understand what a bad fujoshi and what a good fujoshi so i know for myself to either improve or be better i guess? im not sure if this is a stupid thing to ask but im really serious about it so educate me please.

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Forg 12 02,2021

Just don't use the word fujoshi Also don't mix reality and fiction together Never do that ever don't read to much cause that would be a very unhealthy obsession Just be unproblematic don't read bl just for the smut never ever in all the years you will live EVER masturbate to bl Its just disgusting And don't ship actual people And your set for...... reply

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hisoka’s bungee gum 12 02,2021

I dont rlly know the answer bc its such a sensitive topic but in my perspective, bl is just a genre. If I read straight romance as a lesbian, that wouldn’t mean I’m fetishizing straight relationships and vice versa. I think it’s the same for gl and all others. But idk those are just my thoughts 1 reply

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ಥ‿ಥ 12 02,2021

Just dont make things everything yaoi, DONT fetishize mlm cuz thats bad, and lastly read whatever you want that interests you reply

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Kimyona_Chan 12 02,2021

First off, welcome to the site! This is a pretty tame website for reading Manga, and actually one of the safer ones I've used. Secondly, let's try and go over what a fujoshi is: A fujoshi is a female fan of yaoi content, but the word is actually an insult. Translated roughly, it means "a rotten girl". Most people believe that women obsessed with ...... reply

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>Christ-san< 12 02,2021

Everything's okay as long as you know the difference between reality and fiction as well as not being an idiot who complains about every single thing you see that you don't like... Being here is very easy... Just don't be like those idiots in social media sites who shares this site and tells shit about stories you don't like... Never ever share the...... reply

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balutsalut 12 02,2021

I'd rather not have be called a fujoshi personally since there's usually a bad rep about them. Personally, I was a fujoshi too few years back thinking it was just a label for a person reading BL and shit but it did more harm for me than belonging to a sense of community. Another thing I'd like to point out is (like what others said) to seperate fic...... reply

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