Why am I oppressed for something I’m not

Ok so I’m a cis black woman I’m also a lesbian. I look like a man and sound like one cause I’m tall flat and I have a very androgynous voice. So a lot of people think I’m trans or just a man which sucks cause I hate men and even if I was trans I’m not a man. That’s not the worst part though the worst part is since most people think I’m a man no pretty lesbians flirt with me. The ones that do think I’m a top which is extremely incorrect because I’m a bottom to the max. Don’t get me wrong though I love people thinking I’m trans because transphobs are very open with their hate. Meaning I can spot the easier meaning I can rock their shit easer so I guess it’s not all bad and at least I’m not ugly.