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so i have this guy bsf for like a year now and a few months ago he confesses that he liked me. Although he was rushing things and kept asking if i wanted to be his gf, i rejected him politely. He moved on from his confession but we don't have the same kind of relationship we had before his confession. I messaged him earlier and his answers were a lot shorter and colder. I want to have the friendship we had back then but idk how to talk to him.

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[DELETED] 09 02,2021

Girl idk men are weird af reply

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shitass 09 02,2021

Yeahhhh I've been there three times before aha . . use my secret technique of pretending like it didn't happen, and eventually it'll go back to normal after some time. fake it til you make it 1 reply

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Ur local ✨yaoiaddict✨ 09 02,2021

sis i dont think thats possible like one of my bros confessed to me recently ( i rejected him sis i just broke up with my gf ) and even tho im not awkward or anything and act normal as usual ( same goes to him ) our relationship keeps on becoming more distant- reply

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Forg 09 02,2021

I don't know how to help you girly reply

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Tyra the turtle 09 02,2021

My guy bsf confessed to me, and I turned him down. We actually grew rlly close after that, kinda like we didn’t have any secrets with eachother. He became like my only friend. So yeah it’s possible. it rlly depends, honestly we kinda joke ab it now and then... like “remember that time you asked me out.” “Yeah can’t believe I even fell...... reply

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mangaolove 09 02,2021

Yeah, I'm been in a similar situation a few months ago. He confessed and I turned him down. He said he needed some time alone to handle his feelings which I totally understood. After about a month we started hanging out again and now we are acting ''normal''. Basically, we do not touch about the subject love or anything like that and I do not think...... reply

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Aicchi 09 02,2021

Since you rejected him, it's possible he doesn't even want the friendship anymore. Sooner or later, he might just start to ghost you until you stop talking to him all together and eventually y'all will drift until nothing is there anymore. reply

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cassanova 09 02,2021

bruh aint possible at all ╮(￣▽￣)╭ like i had my best friend for years confess to me every freaking year and i just dont like him at that way but people around us keeps on pestering but i still stayed true to my feelings and then i rejected him straight out cause i found kim namjoon hahah lmao and it turned into disgust afterwards reply

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8packspandesal 09 02,2021

thank you for all your advice I'm too lazy to reply to all of the answers so i hope y'all would see this I'll try to do all of them before we grow more distant‍♀️ reply

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[DELETED] 09 02,2021

IDK man, some guys just drop you if they understand you won't fuck them, which I find super weird... You could try and ask him, there's a chance he's "just" heartbroken. 1 reply

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