question for lgbtq+?? /gen
TLDR: people attracted to the same gender, what was your realization at a young age, that you were attracted to the same gender?
hii, i'm a webtoon author, and i currently erm LMAO.... have a question!!!
my webtoon is primarily based around two boys who fall in love. literally the story lol. ive run into a problem tho recently.
the newest chapter im making right now is about one of the mcs realizing his sexuality, and due to the fact that i came to the realization that i'm bisexual very recently, i can't rlly put my own experiences into this.
so, ive come here to this god awful website so ask yall here, what was your realization at a young age, that you were your sexuality? i hope this doesn't come off as weird. i'm trying to be authentic, and not the generic stupid route that most authors do...
please share ur experience if you're comfortable with it! i just need some real-life insp, or ideas, since most of the stuff i've thought up are based off stupid bl i've read, which we all know are not generally not very good rep of actual mlm relationships.
thank u in advance!!! ((:
(webtoon is Obliviously In Love on Webtoons if you're curious!!)
I realized I was gay when I started feeling aroused by the same gender around 11. I assumed it was a passing phase but finally came out when I was 16 since I realized I was just how I was and nothing was changing. My folks are lesbians though so coming out was a blessing in its ease.
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07 02,2021
im pansexual, when i was 5 i had reoccurring dreams where i was kissing the purple girl that wasn't real from spy kids Game Over (if you know you know)
but i only realized i was pan till i was thinking how i would want to be fucked by bj Alex but instead i thought nah I wanna fuck HIM. now that might just suggest that im a top but idk titties just ......
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07 02,2021
UMMMMM I'm more so pansexual then bisexual BUT I can still help! So when I was first confused on my identity because I had a crush on a girl for the first time I asked my friends a bit of questions because they were more experienced in the love department. I asked questions like "Is it normal loving someone the same gender as you?", "Can girls date......
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07 02,2021
wait i- I READ THAT
I LOVE YOUR WEBTOON OMFG. i appreciate the bi representation and that you point out toxic behaviours. and the art style is adorable
so im a bisexual woman. i realised i like girls too when i was eleven. swimming classes ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄ yeah. my country is conservative so i didnt fully understand my attracti......
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07 02,2021
Firstly, let me say that you are amazing and I love your work!
Well, as an asexual with a highly preference for girls, I always had a huge crush on most fictional characters that accompanied my childhood like Mulan and Xena, the Warrior Princess (yeah I have a type haha) .
I've felt differently since I was like 6-7 y.o, especially when all girls......
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07 02,2021
i can try to answer! excuse me for my bad eng hahah. i started to 'prefer' boys over girls when i was in elementary school? i feel like its just a funny thing(?) and i tried to convince myself i can like a girl, so i dated girls. I just cant love them, so i just hang out with boys and i started to really like this one friend, i thought its normal t......
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07 02,2021
oh well.. personally i came to the realization that i was indeed bisexual when i was around 12 years old. i always felt attracted to women and men (and well, just people in general, gender isnt really important for me), but i just felt too scared to even accept it. took me a while to come to terms with myself, and i finally accepted it after some y......
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07 02,2021
i mean i’m pansexual so there were reasons for me being attracted to everyone, but specifically women? probably when i started to just find women more attractive than men. A girl confessed to me and i thought i’d go for it because i was pretty sure i liked her, she ended up probably being the best person i’ve ever dated. We had a kind of plat......
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07 02,2021
I had my first boy crush in second grade and gay was really just something that i never really thought about. I didnt think that liking another boy was taboo or anything. So for me it was really normal. Later on tho, i learned that it's not really the societal norm and that i had to keep it secret. So i didn't really come out to myself until like 7......
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07 02,2021
