How to stop hate white gays

I just realised I genuinely can't stand white American gays. Especially loud ones who use AAVE and idk if that's homophobic or they're just annoying. Especially Spencewuah/millz types. Even worse of they participate in yaoi/Bl discourse when their opinion is irrelevant because only East Asian men can tell us what East Asian media is correctly or incorrectly representing them. O the ones who use Fujoshi, (a word reclaimed by female Japanse BL readers )as an insult.