i dont get it

You just called upon the 13-14 year olds who think they’re masochists when in reality, they got an unrealistic view of SM from shitty manga & fanfics and have never actually tried it.   1 reply

Alright, you seems a bit judgmental here so, let's not shame people who are into that. Here is what I guess: - The key-fact is that it's just a play. Your partner respects you irl. Like all kind of act, it can make you cringe if you're not into it or if the acting isn't good. - People can get excited by being dominated and being humiliated is just ......   reply

different strokes for different folks my dude   reply

As a sadist, I find it hot that they find it hot and then everything is just hot. Honestly, I feel like I am partly masochistic but mostly sadistic cuz it is just hot to put them down and degrade so that is from a sadist pov   1 reply

Its infactuating when someone looks repulsed at you will they hate you? spread rumors? beat you? its intriging you wanna be belittled and made into something less than an ant to feel uselss but needed. I'm personally not that much of a masochist but I sed to really like it a few years ago   reply

*cough* ummm i wasnt serious when i asked this question, these are my 3 am thoughts. i didnt think anyone would bother to answer. ur replies dont need to be literal, yall can kid around chile (~￣▽￣)~ -OP   1 reply

As long as there's consent and aftercare, it's fine. And it's mostly an act, you know. I read many stories with kinks and even though i'm not into that, i still read it because the story was well written. It's bizarre to find so many new kinks lmao.   reply

I mean most people would do it with people they trust and therefore would know the person saying things wouldn't mean any harm. And I think it's also about someone loving you regardless of how much embarrassment you're receiving. But mainly, it's a choice bruh. People be kinky.   reply