Hi hello

Im just sharing, but I broke up with my boyfriend today and I felt much lighter? Like a heavy weight has been lifted off my shoulders or something. I do love him, but our relationship itself has consumed most of the time I set aside for myself and I don't know if I'm just selfish or not, but I want to have time for myself as well. I figured that I can't commit my 100% to a relatio ship this early (I'm 19 years old) and I feel like there's more out there that I could do and right now I'm committing most of my time prioritizing him when I should have put myself first. Is that a selfish act?