Searching for a friendly yaoi discord server

Idk if this is the right place to ask about this, but does anyone have a yaoi discord group I could join? Been searching around for ones join but unfortunately the ones I join are mostly big groups or dead groups TuT I just wanna join a small but friendly group with members that practically acts like friends, that just so happens to all enjoy yaoi. So that means we could all still talk about other stuff and act casual with each other. Not that I have anything against big groups, its just that with the huge amount of members, it becomes increasingly hard to truly make friends with anybody and can feel somewhat restricting with what you can chat about :(
Of course thats just how I feel personally and I'm obviously not insulting the groups, it just isnt my preferred way of communicating with people. Hopefully this request doesn't sound selfish or too rude to you guys. I truly just want to chat/be friends with people and share the love for yaoi (*^▽^*) Thanks in advance.