Fr I've been seeing that often, cause if we are going by that logic then straight porn wouldn't be a thing cause it fetishizing straights, which is dumb logic. It's like saying you shouldn't read yuri if you're a guy. But I like reading yaoi but I wouldn't call myself a fujoshi because I don't ship guys in irl and I'm not infatuated with It. I ship...... 1 reply
You: "I'm not fetishizing gay men when i read yaoi"
Also you: "however it has led to a shipping problem and now i ship every boy i see w someone" reply
Fetishization does not establish residency within the R-rated scene only love. It makes no difference. A BL reader, be they reading R-rated content or not, will be fetishizing from the moment that they are reading BL for the sole *thrill* of it. What I mean by that is how many BL readers read it because it's a guy. With another guy. A taboo in a wa...... 1 reply
"im not fetishizing gay men" but you ship every boy you see with someone, weirdo... 3 reply
