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Hi I'm just a newbie here. I have some questions to asked especially for gay people out there since I'm new to lgbt group. It started this year when I found myself reading BL mangas and watching movies and series. I myself am homophobic person in the pasts years which I have a lesbian friend and a bisexual friend and I kinda feel guilty from being a sexist person. I know I'm such an ass that time when she confessed to me about her sexuality. Since Im the only straight girl in our group of 3, I'm the last one who knows since they're scared of me finding it. At first I'm mad because they're keeping me in dark and I have a lot of questions in my mind.

And when I started reading bl I gradually understand their struggles in life. And I asked my friend if they're doing sex and I'm confused on how they do it. I asked a lot of questions which pissed her off. Some lgbt says some yaois and yuris are not realistic so I asked if how they do it?

Is it they asked their partners who's on top and who's the bottom? Did they researched first before they do it or just let the love flow? I wanna know so that I can't offend anyone by asking this irl.

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Rip 24 04,2018

you... probably shouldn't ask people those sorts of questions unless you already talk about sex with them think "would I ask this of a straight person?" if the answer is no then don't. You don't need to know how your friends have sex... thats kind of weird most yaoi and yuri were written by and for straight people and are incredibly unrealistic....... 1 reply

24 04,2018

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cinnamoroll 17 06,2018

it's not wrong to be curious about things you're not familiar with, of course. but you shouldn't ask questions you wouldn't ask a straight person. it's pretty rude, and we're not different from straight people, like we aren't out here doing stuff that's wildly different. yaoi and yuri are both really not realistic, because number one; it's fictiona...... reply

17 06,2018

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FloresDelMal 17 06,2018

hey there newbie, how do you have sex? do you prefer long sessions or quickies? do you like to be on top or the bottom? how about being taken from the back or the front? are you proactive or a dead fish? do you like it rough or gentle? i think you are a girl so when masturbating do you prefer clitoris stimulation or penetration? when stimulating yo...... reply

17 06,2018

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Jota 31 05,2018

If you don't talk about sex with you friends in general, of course she would be mad that you suddenly ask. Yes, most yuri/yaoi are writting for heterosexual people and are not realistic. But I do not think it is wrong to be curious, in fact I think it's better than wanting to know nothing. Of course, gay or not, they're doing sex. Just like ever...... reply

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【ＦＬＡＷＬＥＳＳ】 17 06,2018

okay, you sound young, so i'm not going to fault you for it. but it's really invasive of you to ask your friends questions about their sex lives completely unwarranted. would you do the same for a straight person? yaoi and yuri are extremely unrealistic, and you shouldn't turn to it for a depiction of the sex life of lgbt individuals. yaoi/yuri is ...... reply

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cupiid 17 06,2018

asking them about their sex positions is a big no. would you ask a straight person if theyre a top or bottom?? many of yaoi and yuri mangas are in fact unrealistic and fetishize queer individuals, since they are written by straight people for straight people. its not logical to become educated about the lgbt community by reading mangas. you should ...... reply

17 06,2018

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StoleTarts 17 06,2018

It sounds as if you're a bit on the young side and we've all had those growing pains about now knowing how to ask questions the right way. It's something I tell my students all the time and help them correct their behavior with when they ask other ESL students about where they grew up. There's a difference between asking a question and making an as...... reply

17 06,2018

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mynameislino 27 06,2018

Lol. Ok, I understand your situation. First of all, in a way, it's good that you've tried to understand the point of view of your friends, because I think it shows that you care about them. It's natural that you're curious, specially since you've been doing some reading, but I think right now you should try to support your friends first. They care ...... reply

27 06,2018

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1OvErDoSE01[INACTIVE] 17 06,2018

Well.. you kind of sound like you were interrogating them as if they were some out of world creature, which, isn't.. respectful. But basically you just want to know how lesbians have sex in general? Most of the times it's through oral sex, some fingering and if you want, toys. Most girls don't use it though. It's like when straight people have se...... 2 reply

17 06,2018

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