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Y’all- this is parental mistakes not emotional trauma. Separate the two please. I did not say this was for emotion trauma. This an article in which they state what is something a parent shouldn’t say and why.   reply

My mom told me everything except “ Thinking about sex is bad at your age", “don’t worry it will be okay”, and rarely “good job”. My mom was pretty okay with me being sexual young. She told me stories about how she lost her virginity when I was like nine. & If my mom was proud of something I did that would only last an hour and then she......   reply

i thought this is normal at least in my family- oh god   reply