The majority of mlm fetishizers are young girls who have no knowledge ab mlm besides the bl they read. Like legitimately you can go on any bl tiktok, youtube video and the comments will be young girls calling it hot. Like they don't know how an actual mlm relationship works besides one being "uke" or "seme".
I mean yeah definitely. 90% of this site is teen girls. And BL is really fucking heteronormative and unrealistic so it’s definitely not teaching them anything good. 1 reply
I seriously miss those days when I only read Here U Are and thought bl fandom was nice. Took me little too long to realize that it was filled with underaged girls who love to fetishize mlm. reply
tbh this is the kinda shit that sends me lmaooooooooo. my only stance on this is, if you're obsessing over gay men in real life, probing into their sex life with invasive questions like "who's top/bottom/dom/sub," shipping your male friends with your classmates, pressuring your queer friends to come out of the closet, etc., then you need to get you...... reply
okay. nblm here and yes, it is overly fetishizing but i don't mind that much. it's uncomfortable here and there like questions if i'm a uke or a seme. i don't really care on who's top or bottom in my relationship really lol. but please don't use these on mlms and nblms and ASK FIRST if they're comfortable with them. because you don't know if they a...... reply
As a mlm, I am happy that I haven't seen too many young fetishizing girls...
I know that there are many of them, but I luckily am able to stay away from those kinds of people :) 1 reply
just me or does anyone else cringe when saying the words 'uke' and 'seme'?
i mean, its not that big of a deal (i think?) cus people usually use those words just for works of fiction. but still, i dont like using these words 1 reply
Hi there my friend I'm too lazy to read, but I'd just want to say, have good day and stay safe always happy okay say no too sad feelings everyone loves you, you are STRONG byeee >3 reply
yh that's true tbh just bl alone (especially mangas/manhwas) isnt enough to educate ppl bcos the bl that they usually see isnt even the right representation. def not a good idea to read bl b4 u have the right understanding of gay relationships, obv not all r like that, there r some hidden gems that actually portray how mlm relationships work but fe...... reply
Lol I can't comprehend people like that cause I separate yaoi people and real gay/bi men sooo much, whenever I see stuff that is in yaoi happen in real life I'm like
"W h a t-no. Impossible." Like anything in real life that also happens in fiction, like to a TEE, makes me feel some weird emotion I can't describe. reply
