I do understand that fetishizing mlm relationships is a horrible thing it dehumanizes an already marginalized group of people. I do have a multitude of experiences we’re I was fetishized for my sexuality by the scum of the earth known as straight men. Though I genuinely do not understand the attack on all women who read bl story simply because a select group of women do sadly fetishize mlm relationship. Though I myself don’t identify as a woman I do have a lot of female friends who do enjoy bl not just because of the fact that it’s an mlm relationship but because it’s romance and they enjoy all forms of romance. Basically the whole point of me writing this if one to ask the mlm community how they would like their allies to help and to also say make sure you are targeting the right people when it comes to this situation.