using the term "bl"
is it bad? is it fetishy?
today, in a server, i promoted my webtoon. i used the words "wholesome bl romance", and was called a fujoshi. i didn't understand what i was doing wrong, and a bunch of people came for me, telling me i was a fetishizer and a fujoshi for using the term bl to label my webtoon.
i just want to know what you guys think? am i a fujoshi and fetishizer for me, being a bisexual woman, to use the term bl with my webtoon? on webtoon, the genres are romance and school, and the words bl are in the icon.
i dont know what to think anymore.
I guessing those guys don't like bl lmao I mean they were prob just being mean for no reason it's not like u said yaoi lmao.
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22 01,2021
Uh no I think it's okay that is the more common and least offensive term to use if you're writing a story like that so don't even bother with them
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22 01,2021
I dont know dude, this whole shabang is making my blood pressure rise. I dont want part of it. want some sour keys?
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22 01,2021
You do the BLOCK and then crack the neck
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22 01,2021
I mean to me its always just been a genre? Like how romance is just a wholeass umbrella term. Kinda like that. Like i can’t see how that would be fetishizing if you’re just describing your webtoon???
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22 01,2021
Honestly making it a point to express that the content is mlm when your main audience isn't even mlm people (or you wouldn't have used "bl" in the first place) is kinda problematic in and of itself... The implication being that people would either read or not read it specifically *because* it's mlm, and considering the audience, that's uh... not gr......
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22 01,2021
lmaooo they dont understand, its just a umbrella term that can be used for yaoi and shounen ai. besides many people who do mlm webcomics on the platform webtoons write out that its a bl in the cover. theyre just a troll dont listen to them.
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22 01,2021
I find watching most straight characters fuck pretty gross so I appreciate labelling. The same way I appreciate any other thematic label like horror or omegaverse or gore.
There are lots of reasons someone might not want to read a BL romance (even without the sex) so it's a bit silly they have an issue with it. We all get different things from wh......
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22 01,2021