You cannot read bl in non fetishistic way.

Hear me out,

You can absolutely as a woman, read BL but not act weird about the media
However, the bl genre , is already fetishy, because it's written by women for women, and that's bad, which is why i said y'all can't read BL, because the genre is general has a fetishy history.
This is it, keep being mad, who's winning in the end?