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If someone told you they wished they never met you or something like they were better before they met you and they apologized for it after a few days, months or years and said they didn’t mean it or it was just because they were just drunk or frustrated at you at that time. Would you still be able to forgive them?

Do I even have the right to forgive them after what they’ve just said?

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Stardust 20 01,2021

I probably wouldn't even remember. I am not one to hold grudges. reply

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Bubblegum4U 20 01,2021

Depends on how many times they said something close to this. I'm forgiving but I'm not the merciful kind. Months and years later? Wow it's really nice of them to think what happened before every single day making space in their memory to feel the guilt reply

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Vampy 20 01,2021

I forgive people as soon as I calm down, forgive and forget. Life's too short to hold grudges ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~ reply

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Nyamh 20 01,2021

Hmm...forgiveness isn't a "should." In the end, they said or did something that hurt you. Your feelings are valid, too. Plus, what does a person want from our forgiveness? To feel less guilty? To ease their shame? To ease the hurt they caused us? And to understand their intentions, you can ask them this: "If I'm still hurting from what you said...... reply

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Yuanyuanyuan 20 01,2021

Yes. People usually say mean things or words they don't ponder about when they're really mad. Forgiving is easy. Forgetting isn't. reply

20 01,2021

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