Have you ever had someone of the same sex like you? How did it make you feel?

Up until now in my life I have had three girls like me (Not at the same time obviously lol). I didn't mind that they liked me and it never affected our relationship. Two of them were my really good friends, so I didn't want to change anything in our relationship also I didn't really see them like that. The last was a friend I met class and we hung out from time to time (strictly at school though) and I noticed the change in her behavior towards me one day. She started hanging around me more and when she did she was constantly touching me or putting her arm around me. She would avoid touching others though. (Not that touching is an indicator of having someone like you.)
Soon after that she told me she was pansexual, so I asked her if she was interested in me. She said she was and asked how I knew. To be honest I have always been pretty good and determining whether a person likes me or not. Anyways I told her that I was cool with it.
I was always cool with it and the fact that I never thought "Oh I can't date you because I don't like girls" never popped up in my head it was just because I didn't really see them that way. Knowing that girls liked me brought up some questions though. Was I bi? Gay? I decided to try to pursue a relationship with her by making a deal that when we reached a higher grade and started out with a new year I would try dating her (Was that a jerk move?).
We ended up going on a trip together along with some other school mates and I realized I didn't really like her that way. After the trip I told her I couldn't go through with our deal especially knowing that I couldn't see her in that way. Another factor that I didn't think of was that I never asked her why she liked me.
I didn't really talk with her all that much I only shared certain interests and would from time to time ask her to recommend some things. I still had those questions though? By not rejecting her just because she was a girl but for the fact that I wasn't interested in her, was I still straight or was I really bi? I would really like some help in figuring out whether I am or not. How did you guys know?

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[DELETED] 22 03,2018

By not rejecting her cause she was a girl but for the fact you weren't interested in her means that you're just an open and respectful person to not be turned off by someone just because of their gender. It's fine to be confused (I, too, am confused about my sexuality and gender), and it's fine to try things with other people (as long as they conse...... 3 reply

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[DELETED] 22 03,2018

I wished Closet becomes extremely comfy when you realize the people around you are either not ok w homosexuals or think of them as perverts that deserves no place in the society So specially if you r not very friendly or extraverted which im totally not the chances of a girl of my acquaintance being queer AND liking me(even a lower possibility) a...... 2 reply

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Kim Jisoos 30 05,2018

idk if i should still answer this bc it's kind of late already but i just wanted to say that you don't need labels just to know yourself. just like who you like. no need some labels to limit your preferences. don't let them dictate your life. that is all. sorry for not having a good answer hehehe reply

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NekuChan 30 05,2018

Yeah, I have. My elementary and middle school best friend. Some time before she confessed to me I had noticed how she would look at me strangely when we were walking to my place and asked her but shrugged it off when she said "for no reason".. I was taken aback of course when it happened, the confession I mean. I probably sounded really rude too wh...... 1 reply

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COMET 29 03,2018

Rather than asking your sexuality based on that (rejecting a girl but not because of her gender), let's look at it by answering these: Have you been attracted to a girl? Have you ever imagined kissing, holding hands, or going out with a girl and thought /that sounds nice, i like it/? It doesn't have to be someone you already know, think of an ideal...... 2 reply

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princenoah 22 03,2018

Well yeah but I'm queer myself so it's always been fine. And well sexuality is complicated, you may be straight or you might just not be interested in that specific girl, who knows really. I don't think you sound like a jerk OP. (=・ω・=) 1 reply

22 03,2018

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Roma0s 22 03,2018

Tbh half of me wanna tell u its not about gender and you should go out with whomever you love dont restrict ur self to a gender its about love but the other religious part wanna say u should go out with boys XD (i am religious but not homophobic i hate them) but i should say you are the one who determine that, you dont have to rush in answering too...... 2 reply

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Eliza 22 03,2018

I'm lesbian myself and I had 2 of my best friends like me at the same time. One of them I liked back and ended up having a 6 month relationship with. The other friend liked me before and after I got together with the one I liked. It resulted in a giant drama. But now I'm single and still good friends with both of them. The who I rejected is bisexua...... 1 reply

22 03,2018

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