Confessing to my crush/Little background story
I have liked my crush since the 7th grade, I am now currently in the 10th grade. I wanted to tell him that I liked him along time ago, but never did since my friend started liking him after I introduced them to each other. She, however, made her feelings abundantly clear for him. She would sit in his lap when we ate together, hug him, hold his hand, and play with his hair. Of course she also told him that she liked him. I felt like a jerk knowing it would never work between them. The reason why being that he didn't really like her aggressive nature and the fact that he confided in me that he liked another one of our friends. Knowing he liked another of our friends hurt, I kind of hated that he did. I tried to find fault in her as to "why her" and tried to find every reason not to like her (stupid I know but never bad mouthed her or anything) not even knowing that at the time she would be one of my greatest friends today. Anyway I got over it. I accepted that he would never like me like that since he mostly likely thought of me only as his best friend, but somewhere deep down I still liked him. My friend that liked him would constantly go back and forth between him and two other guys (She just couldn't figure out who she liked more). As time went on and we entered highschool we were still as close as we were in middle school, but after freshman year was over and we were 10th graders, we stopped hanging out and made new friends. My friend hung out with her band friends, he hung out with ROTC kids, and I hung out with everybody else, anyone else. Recently, he and I started talking again via text and I asked him how things were. He replied "I'm just trying to get my crush to notice me" (Not those exact words but..) and I asked "who is it?" His crush turned out to be a junior. A junior guy. I asked him if he finally came out of the closet and he told me that he was done denying it. Did I forget to mention that I was the one who suspected he was gay even if he didn't want to admit it. Taking the opportunity that he finally admitted he was gay I told him that I liked him. He....told me he couldn't believe that I liked him for that long and that if I had told him sooner he would have liked me. I texted him that it was cool and that I gave up a long time ago, but when I did like him I missed out on a good boyfriend (There was a guy who openly liked me, but I couldn't date him knowing I liked someone else.) The only lie I told him was that I stopped liking him. If you have given up on your crush, still tell them you liked them it is better to get closure. If you like them, tell them even if you fear rejection. By knowing their response you find out the type of person they are, if you wasted your precious time pining for them or even if they were never worth it at all. The response I got from him helped me, I truly hope he gets the guy he deserves.
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God, look at these love stories, we could make a manga out of each. Listen to mine, I had a crush when I was in 7th class. And, I was in the same section as him. He was a widely rumoured about guy, who had a dozen girls falling for him. And, me a curious person. I eventually fell for him too. Let me say, I was just sooooo shy at that time, I was bad at talking to any guy, I would only talk to him through his childhood friend, and my friend(a girl). And I kept it to myself. We would definitely meet during the school exhibition , though we were in different sections, purely by the stroke of luck. Till 10th class, this continued. During this time, I met the first and only guy i’ve Ever known who liked me openly. He would stare at me from the back, everyone said so, even I felt his eyes boring a hole through me.but I was just so in love with the other guy. Eventually ,I decided to give up on him. In 11th class, I , him and his girlfriend, we all continued in the same school. I met his girl and came to know that they are together, she became my best friend and me, so glad I had given up on my unrequited love. And these days, she told me that she was talking to him about me and he said he was afraid of me when we were in 7th class. LMAO! God, I liked him and he was afraid of me! WTF. Unfortunately, now I don’t fall so easily. I don’t even know the last name of the only guy who liked me. We would have gotten along well. But I can only hope that i’ll fall in love soon.
See so you’re lucky that he said he would have gone out with you had you confessed. I don’t even know what would have happened in my case.
I guess I am lucky enough to know that he would have gone out with me, but he would have still been gay. I'm just glad that he is finally able to feel that it is okay to come out. It's funny how the guy was scared of you though, I wish it would have ended better for you. That poor guy who liked you though lol! I wish I could back and talk to the guy who liked me turns out I started liking him too, but he ended up moving one day and didn't tell anyone (he got into a fight at school and the next day he was gone) turns out he lives in Iowa now.
I had liked him since we were elementary school and we were childhood friends,Born at the same hospital same day but not the same time,
He was popular with the girls in high school,He would be confessed by girls almost everday.One time i overheard his conversation with his friend.The friend said,'Michiyo is pretty??why don't u go out with her??'He said,'Nah,We're just childhood friends nothing special'
I was rly fucking heartbroken that day.But i acted i was fine.
One day,I was shocked he started going out with my cousin!!!
The girls were crying and the guys were making some strange noise??(thought they had to go to the mental hospital)
He said,he wanted to go to tohoku university so i followed him to go there.My studies were so bad that i could only pass at english.
Luckily,Me and him got accepted.
But him and my cousin were still dating at that time.
I found Mangago,Talked with a girl name Cindy.
She encouraged me to confess to him!!!!
And so i did,i confess to him when we were washing the dishes!!$
He took a long time to give me Back. The anwears
He told me that he loved me since hischool(That time when he told me that,I thought:Bitch if u had told me this sooner this situation wouldn't have come)
Oh well!!We're dating now
Your story sounds so cute and like manga lol. I'm glad it worked out well for you in the end! I wish he would have told you sonner!
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Hope u meet a great guy