fujoshis are bad.
cis women are inherently mlm fetishizers, if you read BL, me a mlm has every right to think that you probably fetishize gay men or romanticize rape in m/m pairings
here are some red flags from a gay man who has been around the bl fandom for a year now.
- women on mangago who only read BL, or read BL more than 50% of the time.
- Women who use BL as a way to escape the male 'gaze' a lot of times they tend to project toxic behaviours in m/m pairings because it's okay since there is no woman in here, so they don't see themselves in the story
- straight women who say they hate yuri/gl
- cis women who wants me to be their gaybies/ask me personal questions ( top or bottom'
- women who use the ' nosebleed yaoi ' meme
- women who complain about a YURI/gl being written by a man, and then in the same breath loves BL/YAOI written by women.
- women who use the 'i'm lgbtq card' as a way to get away with fetishization.
Thanks for coming to my ted talk.
banger ppl who like to call themselves fujoshis are fucking freaks
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09 01,2021
Wow what a post. (I am sorry this is very long, but I wanted to clearly explain my point of view because your post was loaded . There was a lot to unpack)
Alright, I want to give you my (contrasting) opinion. Let me start by saying that you can think what you want, as you said, you have every right to do so whether you’re a mlm or not, like eve......
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09 01,2021
A short question: as a man am aloud to read yaoi?
You talk about a few problems in bl (rape etc) and yeah these thinks are really not ok, but it is also not ok to judge people that easy. There are many who critizise this.
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09 01,2021
yuri art tends to be much cuter than bl, but theyre usually lacking in plot. dont get me wrong, i love a good cliche, but it mainly tsundere/dandere bottom, with some sort of cool top. it is with bl too, but its just not the same i guess? buildup and stuff matters.
also, im a straight guy who likes bl... so... uh do i count?
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09 01,2021
essentially your argument is that ONLY GAY PEOPLE CAN READ AND /OR WATCH GAY BOOKS OR MANGA OR GAY FILMS BECAUSE WHEN STRAIGHT PEOPLE DO IT IS IS FETISHIZING. I have heard your argument and that is your opinion but stop putting labels on people like that, not everyone who reads bl is like what you described, that is all, I have a fucking headache f......
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09 01,2021
Aw, look, D,:
PFFT bitch we don't give a fuck! LMAOO
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09 01,2021
No one:
actually no one:
Women who read bl but slander gl:
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06 02,2021
Just wanted to say most of you all are proving op's point. I wholeheartedly agree with op by the way. Just wanted to add this bl as a genre has a lot of problematic things getting romanticized and shows gay people in a unrealistic way. So if you just read bl then these things are probably affecting you
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10 01,2021
I completely agree the worst part is actually going through that phase
I'm not saying it's bad to read bl or gl it's just weird having to see people commenting "uwu those to guys/girls would look so cute together" or " I think this person is top/bottom" just a quick question for the people part of the lgbtq community. Do you guys feel comfortable......
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09 01,2021
Yo, I'm a gay dude who has been into BL for just a few months and just wanna say to everyone disagreeing.. You're most likely mad because you're the exact description of what the creator of this post said. You aren't allowed to speak for gay men if you aren't a gay man. If mlm say that you're fetishizing then you are fetishizing and have no right t......
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09 01,2021
