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Uh well stop reading yaoi if it’s become a problem for you (which it has). Every time you have a thought about gay men that’s fetishizing, correct yourself. Do it until the problem is gone. You can control your own problematic behavior if you decide to and you can correct your own thoughts. I was raised around my grandparents who shamed me f......   reply

There's not an easy answer for it but I say that you should start engaging with other types of media. Check out wlw, het and nb couples. Feeling guilty about it is not a lasting solution since you start becoming numb to it at some point. Gay men are people just like everyone else and thinking of them as a fetish you need to get rid off is not the w......   reply