How did you know you were gay/lesbian/bi/pan etc.

The first gender I had uh.....fantasies...... about were women but I new I still liked men because I’d get crushes on both genders and gender was never something I factored into my attraction. It took me awhile to understand what label I fit under. At first I thought I had to be lesbian because my mother told me bisexual people didn’t exist (an......   1 reply

Easy One summer day during age 5 I decided I wanted to marry a guy I though was cute Ever since then I knew I was gay ever since my first love   reply

My grammar is bad so I just write what suited the sentences. I really wanted to share my story. In my circle of friends they always had thus crushes thingy going on. So all my friends are hetero. They all liked male. I was kinda push to have crushes. So I just said whoever comes to mind.i made it up. I always wonder why don't I have real crush. S......   reply

I grew up thinking puberty passed me by. While everyone else in my group of friends was oohing and ahhing over "Bishies" and boy bands and making terrible self insert fan fics and fan art, I was still pretending to be a dragon and studying how to draw clouds. Physically my body changed, but I never got "boy crazy". (or girl crazy for that matter) ......   reply

I started seeing a ton of yaoi on my front page and started reading/watching it, I didn't really think much of it back then, I just thought I liked reading/watching boys banging eachother, and I wasn't wrong- I also fell in love with a boy who didn't like me back and just continued on my journey reading yaoi, that's when I started realizing that I ......   reply