Is it bad to be Cold-Hearted?

It depends. If it starts affecting your relationships in a bad way, you might want to find out the cause of why you're cold hearted and work to try to flip a switch inside of you. I don't believe one is born cold hearted, I'm also not gonna say it's not an issue, because to the people around you, it may be an issue and they may feel as if you're a ......   1 reply

It really depends on the situation you are in.... There are times you need to and some moments when you need to show your appreciation and love... A simple tip: Learn the love language of other people and yourself and you will have no problem of when you will be cold-hearted   reply

don't even know myself, I can be numb to many things and tucked deep inside my little shell of ice and rock but sometimes you should peek out in the warm daylight and actually look at the other person as a human with real feelings. If you're detached, alright, I am too, but don't cut yourself off from the world.   2 reply

i don't think so. i mean, i think about what my reaction would be if someone close to me died and i have always thought i would really cry or mourn too much. like, it's not like i wouldn't have loved the people, but i just wouldn't be that emotional??? idk how to explain but i'm very apathetic even towards my own parents   reply

I don't think that at some point, since I'm very emotional and emphasis to others. I always feel sorry if I ever done something wrong. So being cold-hearted maybe useful in life; but you should be affectionate with people whom you treasure.   reply

Plain and simple. No.   reply

N over to the O. If you're not able to arouse feelings in certain situations then it's perfectly OKAY. Surround yourself with people who understand you. My friends know how cold hearted and distant I can be but they don't expect me to change in order to suit their preferences. Although cold hearted and rude or naughty aren't the same thing.   reply

Am I going to surprise you if I say that it depends? As with everything, there are upsides and downsides that may or may not apply to current situation. In relationships being unemotional is, in most cases, terrible, because it makes it so difficult to read you. How is someone supposed to gauge whenever you truly liked the Christmas gift they gave......   reply