Do I fetishsize Yaoi/BL?

If you are interested in gay sex/couples/ships solely because they are gay (and you aren’t a mlm), you are fetishizing   1 reply

Okay. Here is what I'll tell you. When a chapter of Tempters was released, it was 16 15 i think? People were like i wish I were a boy to be slutty as him or something. im a fujoshi and I find that disgusting. Id rather be a boy because fudanshis dont get much backlash. Im tired of being a fujoshi because we are thought of as fetishizers, and i thin......   1 reply

It's okay to enjoy watching/reading BL when you're not mlm yourself. What is not ok is when straight people see lgbt relationships as only sexual content or treat real lgbt people like BL/GL characters (also thinking you want to be gay or smth just erases real lgbt struggles). Keep in mind too that lgbt content doesn't have free pass to portray rap......   1 reply

Well, there’s a problem if you start pushing it onto real people. In the real world, it’s not at all socially acceptable to go up to a gay couple and ask them which one tops. That is weird. But some people don’t understand that. Gay people are just like anybody else. They’re people. They just happen to be gay. You wouldn’t ask a straight ......   1 reply

I ship couples in movies too????!!!!??? It's what ships are for??? To gain attraction and attention??? So they can make more money??? I ship every couple I like. Het, lesbian or gay. Whatever I find interesting for dynamics, plot or characters.   reply