sorry, no
yes, i'm a guy, and yes, i read yaoi sometimes for the fun of it (i don't really think of myself as a fudan - i'd have to be be more obsessive for that haha), but to be entirely honest, fudans (and fujos) are sometimes a little obsessive. like, dude, they can be great (albeit weird) friends, but dating one? ehh...not a fan of the idea...
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Dude, there are some normal fundanshis here... Like me, I only occasionally eat used tissues and start sweating like a freak whilst reading BL.
No seriously, there are normal fundanshi and fujoshi out there, it's just most people are weird deep down and BL fans just let it out.