How should i feel??
My bff called me. She said she had plans and lets go camping at the beach in the weekend. But I refused, said I was tired.
I did not want to go and i have to prepare for my test on Monday.
She got angry like she always does but this time she said some stuff that really hurt me. I feel like I don't have the right to be my own person with her. That I should pay attention to her always.
I dont have time for myself. I like spending time with myself sometimes. I need to breathe but it's like she does not want to understand.
She ended up insulting me saying things like i'll end up alone and that i am selfish
She brought old grudges I did not know she was still holding and said things she knows will hurt me deeply.
Then she proceeded to tell me that she was blocking me on every social website she uses.
I dont know what I should do??
I feel hurt and insulted and caged but I also know that she is dear to me.
I feel like i am the one whose wrong and that I should apologise while another part of me feels like I should let it be.
I am losing my only friend and I feel guilt and relief at the same time.
What should I do??
Plz help...☹
TBH I haven't had a friend since 4th grade and I'm a senior in high school now so I don't really know but if I were you I would get new friends. If she constantly wants attention from you and doesn't allow you to be your own person then I'd ditch her. ╮(￣▽￣)╭
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23 03,2018
To be honest what you are feeling is completely normal. I personally am one that likes being alone. Sure I spend time with friends and family, but at the end of the day I wanna be alone and able to breath if that makes sense. If your friend can't understand that then she is immature and selfish. If she demands attention and won't let you just have ......
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23 03,2018
I understand what you might be going through and I know for certain that it's very hard to lose a close friend. But if she's always making you feel negative emotions is she really that good of a friend to you??? She sounds rather selfish from what I've heard from your comment, and while it's true that friends have conflicts once in a while, if it's......
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03 02,2018
If your friend can't understand that you want time to yourself then you are not at fault. You shouldn't feel guilty seeing as its your time and you can choose want. She shouldn't insult you just based on her pride and how you can't aways hang out or talk. Also threatening to block you? I think thats a bit much. Have you ever let her know how this m......
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03 02,2018
I know it seems simple but you should talk together, each other must tell their honest feelings even if it may hurt. You are friends since a long time ago so if you tell each other what you feel you should not break apart so easily.
Sorry for my English, hope I could help.
Best of luck ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
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03 02,2018
Wow I swear the same thing is happening with me! But hey never let it be! I guess you should tell her how you feel!! and I hope she'll understand :))
I couldn't tell my bff how I feel, and now we see each other for like once a week even tho we're in the same neighborhood. Haha and she has a new bff now¯_(ツ)_/¯
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03 02,2018
Hmm.. this is difficult because we only know your perspective of things, but hopefully this can help.
First- What are the things that you love about her? Is this common for her to do? Burst out in anger but regret it later? DOES she regret saying what she says?
Second - Its incredibly difficult to see a withering relationship, but ask yourself i......
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03 02,2018
