women saying the f slur

do y’all think it’s okay for lesbians (women loving women whatever) to reclaim faggot? (don’t worry i Ike boobs) i mean y’all i don’t get called fag for liking girls, only to get shamed because i said it once or twice,,,,

i say this because a few weeks ago, a gay guy in my server got angry at me for saying it, and despite me explaining i wasn’t some straightie, he said he found it offensive so idk guys, what’s ur take on it?