Do you agree that people never change, they just show their true colors?
I do. I've seen them videos on abusive relationships. They start off all nice and sweet. Then slowly they start showing themselves being mean to you, make you think your crazy, being controlling and separate you from your loves then. Then when you are all alone they show their full true colors.
People definitely change. That’s what life is, constant change and growth (in good or bad ways). Abusive people have a hard time breaking the pattern of being abusive because usually it’s how they were taught to love by their parents. Therapy and willingness to change is the only thing that can help them. reply
I think it depends on person cuz some people can change because of some things happen in their life (trauma something like that or realising something) or there are fake ass two-faced bitches who just shows you their true colors reply
There are things about your personality that are born with you and won't change, so I believe that's kinda true. Are abusers born this way? I don't know, but it's been proven again and again that people should quit abusive relationships before it's too late. It's a very unromantic advice, but sadly life is not a romantic movie. reply