So I've been wondering is calling someone (irl) an uke or a seme that bad? I know a lot of people are against labeling (role?) as everyone can do whatever they want but IS IT THAT BAD?
I'm not particular against it but I wouldn't ask about it either...just a very weird question to ask (for me)
FUCKING YES. It’s really fucking bad. Gay people are human beings. That’s dehumanizing. Real people are semes or ukes. Gay people aren’t yaoi characters. reply
