So I've been wondering is calling someone (irl) an uke or a seme that bad? I know a lot of people are against labeling (role?) as everyone can do whatever they want but IS IT THAT BAD?
I'm not particular against it but I wouldn't ask about it either...just a very weird question to ask (for me)
YES it is that bad, u are fetishizing people quite blatantly at that point, it’d be creepy to anyone if they were labeled that way in real life, keep ur fiction to fiction and reality to reality reply
