So I've been wondering is calling someone (irl) an uke or a seme that bad? I know a lot of people are against labeling (role?) as everyone can do whatever they want but IS IT THAT BAD?
I'm not particular against it but I wouldn't ask about it either...just a very weird question to ask (for me)
I don't even feel comfortable calling fictional characters that to be honest.. It seems super fetishy. I tend to refer to myself as a fan of BL, as a genre. People in real life should not be involved in your own personal hobbies, it's creepy and can make them feel like they're just an object of your desire.
Please, unless they specifically say th...... reply
If they didn't give you explicit permission, and even if they did, if they are below the consenting age, it is sexual harrasment and illegal. so, yeah 1 reply
