I came out as a lesbian because I thought no one would take my attraction to girls seriously if I came out as bi because of the whole “bi women are just confused straight girls” stereotype. I’m out as bi to my friends now, but I don’t wanna say anything to my mom because then she’ll be trying to set me up with a guy every two seconds and act like me being attracted to any other gender than male was just a phase I grew out of.
theres nothing wrong with being bi i dunno why there's so much shit over people who like girls n boys. just dont be a pos and dehumanize or look down on bi/pan people. girls=hot, men=hot, any other pronouns = hot reply
I- Can’t you just tell your mom you’re not ready to date? I mean I’m Bi and still in the closet but if I came out I’m pretty sure my parents would understand. But that’s a risk I’m not willing to take. reply
i thought i was bi at first but i realized im pan so yeahhhh cant relate lol
sucks that not even ur fellow lgbtqia+ can accept bi (and sometimes pan too). i hope u can overcome this and get the confidence to accept who u rlly are and not let other ppl or ur mum force u regarding w ur preferences and sexuality reply
oh felt that. when the media and social narrative around lgbtq is "gays vs straights", even if you know you have a place with the gays as a bi person, it feels like you're not "truly" gay enough or like your attraction to one or the other gender is dirty. homophobes think we're wrong to begin with, gays don't vibe with straights, and bi people need...... reply