Well.. its so weird for me to talk about it, but since theres no one in my real life who i can ask advice, ill ask here. Hmm.. how can i start. I was attracted to women and man both sexually and emotional. I had my first kiss with boy, whom i liked since 8th grade, but he was type of the boy who only cares about what others will say and since im not than popular xd he was like we can kiss and anything but we cant be together. I hate that type of people so automattycaly i started to dislike this person too. He was player. This summer i meet one girl online. We were talking all days long.. she was so nice omfg.. i realised i started to like her.. she confess to me after 3 months.. god, i was so in love with her. My head was full of her. I wanted to talk only about her and with her. But we ended in bad terms for some reasons.. i was so depressed back then and i only wanted her again. I was addicted. But last month i found out that my friend likes me for so long.. we started talking, flirting.. and i caught myself thinking about dating her.. i think i like her but im more attracted to her emotionally. Now i dont know wat to do and think. Maybe iam lesbian or be or pan i have no idea..(⊙…⊙ )
just in case youre bi like me WELCOME (you could be demi, pan, omni, etc.) ps its also ok to be confused lol i was confused too but now im comfortable with myself a bit more. reply
There are a broad range of sexualities, and many of them have levels--nobody can be defined by a label, we're all different. My advice would be to enjoy finding out what you like, and to be patient and kind with yourself and as kind to others as you can be (while remembering that you are responsible for yourself, not them). Even if you think you ...... reply
Obviously you could be bi but there’s many different terms including demisexual bi ace aromantic other. But sexuality is fluid as many people say and my advise is to just date who you like but don’t feel pressured to put a label on it, because your sexuality might be a bit different to the general “definition” you find online. reply