It makes no sense.

They call you a prude if you don't have sex and they keep begging you. But then when you have sex and they get you pregnant they call you a whore that should've kept her legs closed and then say you should've taken responsibility for your actions. So when you take responsibility for your actions and go to get an abortion you're a murderer. But if you don't and the man abandons you you're reduced to an irresponsible single mom with no value and you should've chosen a better man..

But then if you tried avoiding all of this by choosing a better man you're too picky and have too high standards and should give men "a chance". You are punished no matter which path you take. God I hate this planet