So I'm noticing a pattern on this site with yuri/shoujo ai

Okay, so I've recently been jumping back on the GL scene after reading it on the down low because I didn't want to admit I thought girls were cute too. Anyway, I know this site hosts more BL manga and that more yaoi fans flock to this site than yuri, but I've been noticing this pattern(?) with certain GL mangas (and forums/message boards here) for a while now where some of you guys seem to want to make reading yaoi or yuri a competition? I'm prefacing this by saying that I //personally// don't care if girls kissing and being romantic isn't your thing, but if you leave comments like "eww lol why did I read this when I'm a hardcore fujoshi" or "I can only read yuri if one or both of them looks like a guy" or straight up "yaoi's better than yuri because iT hAs mOrE dEpTh" you're being condescending, rude, and--I know this is a scary word for some of ya'll because you think your reading preferences makes you an ally--homophobic!

This has been a PSA! If any of the above is you, maybe reflect a little! Thank you and good night.