Coming out

Is it worth the risk? It might be safer to stay in the closet. If your parents think that LGBTQ people are disgusting, how would coming out to them benefit you if it's likely they won't accept you? I think the strongest reason to come out to LGBTQ-phobic parents is if you're trans and can't continue to live in a way antagonistic to your identity. I......   reply

thank you all for your advice it means a lot to me.i think ill take your advice and tell them when i move out,even if they dont accept me i think ill be happy to know that my family can’t change who i amヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~   1 reply

don't do it. once you are financially stable and they don't have anything on you can consider trying to educate them a bit and then come out BUT DEFINITELY DON'T DO IT IF YOU ARE STILL A MINOR DEPENDENT ON THEM and i wish you safety and happiness   reply

Hi! The only advice i could give you is to be sure that its a safe environment to do so. I know its hard and you really wanna tell them but for your own safety make sure they will have a calm reaction... When i came out to my mom she said all the right things even tho she's very homophobic, i knew it would be safe cause before anything she's always......   reply