My younger brother aPolyramus
I'm having a mental breakdown rn. Why the f* would you date 3 people at once? Poly- what?!
My younger brother came home with his three boyfriends. Suddenly make a confession to me. I'm speechless, irritated,crying and full of anger.
My father are the worst at relationship ( he divorce and remarry other woman 3 time) why would you-
As if our dad isn't enough! After he confessed to me, he have been these guys for 4 years
From high school to the uni.
I fully agree if you want to become gay or bi or asexual or other. Other than polyramus!
(Wait, is it polyramus? I don't remember)
I ran into my room and I start crying.... What I'm supposed to do? What have I done? I still can't accept the fact my y brother are in that kind of relationship.
I know it's not my problem but he's my younger brother. I can't help but feel angry, irritated and other my mixed feelings.
I'm sorry for other, I didn't mean to offend anybody but these whole thing are to big for me to accept.
I'm still to find a way to calm myself down.
Anyone know how?
Polygamy is a type of relationship that’s completely normal. It might be different from societal views but there’s nothing wrong with being polyamorous.
I get that you feel upset bc of previous incidents but polygamy and “remarriage” are very different things.
Polygamy can happen when you love two+ people and they all love each other, it�......
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26 11,2020
u reacted exactly how my cousin reacted when she found out im ina relationship with 2 other guys. poly relationship is 100% valid, if u think ur brother is weird or their relationship is wrong, take a pause and look at urself first bc ur the one whos got problems and not him. u owe him an apology
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26 11,2020
Your brother and his relationship are 1000% valid, the only problem I'm seeing is you. Reactions like yours are why people don't feel like they can be open about shit.
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26 11,2020
I know I cant fully understand your situation
But can you try to ask your brother and try to understand him
I know it's really hard to accept this situation
But it's been 4 years for him and if he is happy and having healthy relationships then just try to understand him
I know you must be having a mental breakdown now but as a elder sis try to rem......
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26 11,2020
dude
you should probably apologize to him
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26 11,2020
It seems like you were unprepared to learn about this at the time your brother told you and it really took you by surprise. So first,, look at this carrot boy sitting in stew. He is veg bebe. You are the carrot. try and calm yourself, woman
Now I will give u advice to think abt. I understand how you feel—though it may be a little strange to thin......
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26 11,2020
I read all the other comments and I'm going to give you my perspective. If that happened to me, I would probably freak out and just not speak to my brother. Polygamy is a thing where I'm from, however (though it's dying out, kind of) but it's one man having several wives, not a guy having three boyfriends.
I can imagine it was hard for you to get ......
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26 11,2020
lmao go outside and throw a football or something lmao
it's not like he's in a monogamous relationship yet cheating with 2 other dudes. He's polyamorous meaning they all consented to be with each other, the same way one would a monogamous relationship.
Get over yourself
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26 11,2020
This is completely normal, well, for US at least. Maybe you´re just too comfortable seeing all straight, gay, and lesbian couples. Not enough of polygamous. It´s understandable why you´d be confused, but this is your brother, if it makes him happy, you should support him. Who knows, pulling an act like this again could ruin a relationship.
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27 11,2020
its a poly relationship! they all love each other equally so its not like he's dating all of them behind their backs. the other 3 people in the relationship also love each other! if your uncomfortable being in a relationship with your brother then tell him but dont be upset because he is in a poly relationship.
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27 11,2020
