When did you first lose you virginity

I was almost 21. I wasn’t planning on waiting for marriage, but had put in place 3 criterea that needed to be met before I gave my virginity up.

1. We both had to be sober. (I didn’t want my first time to be a drunken mistake.)
2. I had to trust the person.
3. I had to at least care about the person, if not love them. (I was not naive enough to believe that my first time would be with my true love.)

I’m glad I waited until I had all three criterea. I definitely don’t regret my first time, even though he eventually turned out to be a loser, I stilled did everything on my on terms.