why are non-black people so comfortable about using the n-word

I feel so uncomfortable when I’m thinking of a song and my inner voice says the word. The guilt kills me and idk if it’s wrong. Idk y non black ppl say it like— don’t   reply

Because they are racist. I’ve literally never said the word in my life, it’s that easy folks.   reply

Uhhh unknown confidence idfk   reply

some people just lack compassion LOL they don't understand or care to understand how the word makes people feel. Its the same thing w using the f slur, I'm gay but I don't feel comfortable saying the f slur   reply

Honestly... I have zero clue, I’m black and I barely say it.   reply

To me, it seems weird that black ppl even use it. I'm gay and I never say "fag". I have ASD and I never say "retard" or the like. So I understand anyone who wouldn't want to say the n-word word. It refers to something bad. It is "just a word", but at the same time, it's connotation is very bad.   1 reply

I've never used that word and never will... and I don't know anyone who has, but tbf it's probably not a word used much where I'm from even from racist mfers....   1 reply