We should talk about these things more

Glasses are my ultimate weakness. I love people in glasses. As for kinks, I like my partner to be dominant in the bedroom. I'm always being responsible and maintaining order at work and at home so I like to really relax and let someone else take the lead. ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄
When I was younger I used to feel bad about my kink. I was made to feel like I was a weak or sick person for wanting to be dominated. Luckily I met a friend who had the same kink and not only made me feel normal but showed me how to have safe relationships. I wish people would talk more openly about these things so there would be less confusion, fear, and hurt feelings. My advice is to ask yourself three questions. Does it make you happy/fulfilled? Are you being safe/responsible? Does it feel good? If the answer is yes to all three there is nothing to be ashamed of and don't let
anyone tell you different. At the end of the day, the only person you HAVE to live with is yourself so love and cherish yourself and don't let anyone make you feel bad for being you.