From my experience on this site people seem to be rather on board with rape or constantly find excuse for it, probably due to how common it is in mangas. At the same time cheating is super frowned upon, and it seems really odd to me, that out of two bad things, the most traumatic of them is being defended.
Rape. You can get over your partner cheating, tho it may leave you heartbroken. But rape is a whole different story. im pretty sure that everyone who's been raped has trauma afterwords. Some people may get over, but it changes you reply