No Nuance November (Yaoi Community Edition)
1) Cishet women should not write, sexualize, or try to portray the struggles of being a part of the LGBTQ community when they do not put the effort in trying to understand them or educate themselves on our daily oppression.
2) If you refer to real gay couples as 'seme' or 'uke, sit your mf ass down.
3) If you think yaoi is good representation for gay couples, sit your mf ass down.
4) If you self identify yourself as a 'fujoshi/fudanshi', seek help.
5) If you get uncomfortable when someone refers to your 'yaoi' couple as gay or mlm, seek help. You're fetishization is showing.
6) Rape is not cute. CNC is not cute. Dubious consent is not cute. If I catch another one of you mfs creating an "uwu rape 18+!!!" yaoi thread, it's on sight.
7) If you like yaoi but do not support LGBTQ lives, I am legally required to hate you.
Add yours to the list, I'm tryna see sumn
more of a personal one, but i hate when everyone glorifies yaoi but hates it in a straight romance (or basically EVERYWHERE ELSE). like y'all come busting out with your "iT's fIcTION!!11!!1!" in yaoi but in a shoujo or something you're absolutely disgusted.
have consistency please smh
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20 11,2020
Stockholm syndrome isn't cute too. You're basically falling in love with someone who has kidnapped you for their own personal gain.
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20 11,2020
Oh I got one.
If you are a woman and find mlm good but wlw weird. Like I’ve met so much mfers in my life who think this, and it’s disgusting. Same with if your a man and you find lesbians hot but mlm bad, it’s sickening and you need to get some help.
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20 11,2020
Forgot to add this
8) If you are in any way shape or form consuming yaoi media that includes shotas, hyperfeminized ukes that look like children, or 'school life' mangas, that's child porn. You are literally reading child porn. I'ma still side eye you if you live in a country where the legal age is low, but if you live in an 18+ country and you'r......
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20 11,2020
if you have said/thought anything like "I wish I was a gay guy/girl so I can experience gay sex" sit yo bitch ass down
if you genuinely wish male pregnancy was real not for the couple's happiness but for YOUR satisfaction, sit yo ASS DOWN
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20 11,2020
9) Stop romanticizing verbal and non verbal aggression just because the person apologizes.
10) Stop romanticizing obsessive and extremely possessive behavior.
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20 11,2020
8) If you think it's okay to "make" cis man pregnant but it's not okay for BL mangas to have trans people in it, seek help.
9) If you think gay relationships are only based in sex, that's just fetishization.
10) Also, adult x minor stories are just disgusting... it doesn't matter if they're gay or not, it's still pedophilia.
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20 11,2020
Hell is waiting for one of you mfs to fail.
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20 11,2020
you contradicted yourself with #3 and #5. if yaoi doesn't accurately represent gay couples, why should yaoi guys be called gay couples? #1 sounds like you're just trying to victimize yourself, the collective experiences of lgbtq+ peeps are not necessarily centered around oppression. #4 i don't see the problem with calling yourself a fujoshi/fudans......
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20 11,2020
What definition of nuance are you using? The definition I know and the context you're using it are not adding up in my mind. I'm genuinely confused and I just want to understand what's happening.
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20 11,2020
